Miss Lila Sage
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September 13, 2021
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How to Date a Dominatrix


I can’t say that I blame you.


Dominant women are comfortable in their skin, wear confidence well, and always have a fun surprise or two for lucky partners.


Dominant women know what they like and how they like it, so your approach will likely be different that with other women you have dated.


Make sure you do your research and keep reading for tips on how to woo your intended:



Ask how She likes to be addressed:


Some Dominas prefer to be addressed by honorifics in public. An honorific is a title that signifies respect and heightens the power dynamic between people.


Ask your intended how she likes to be called.

Miss, Goddess, and Domina are all popular titles.


When unsure I believe Miss is respectful and independent of age.



Plan the date:


Dominatrices often spend our time planning and creating experiences for other people so it is nice to have someone do that for us.


Think on a couple of different activities that she may enjoy and present her with options.


Women love options


Does she enjoy attending the ballet? How about a traditional dinner date or afternoon coffee? Maybe she craves something more adventurous like axe throwing.


The more unique the better.


You want your experience to stand out and create positive memories so you stay on her fascinating mind.



Bring an offering:


Flowers are always a classy and classic option.

Maybe some dark chocolates or a candle.


Your gift does not have to be extravagant, just heartfelt.


These little gifts will show her that you have been thinking about her in the days or weeks leading up to your date.

Be clear with your intentions:


She may ask you during your meeting but even if she doesn’t, politely state your intentions.

This could sound like


I am looking for a play partner to meet with once a month or


I am looking for a long-term committed female-led relationship or


I am looking for coaching and training

With these tips you should be well on your way to making a great impression.

Good luck on your date!


If you are interested in more tips or individualized coaching for better results, reach out to me at  Lila@MissLilaSage.com


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